As a parent, obsessive nerd, and someone who runs a web community, this talk had a lot to say to me. So, thanks.

I'll talk to you about this more when I see you, but at points I wondered if what you were saying is "Feel for these kids, they didn't have cool, white, upper-middle class parents with spare computers like you did!" without asking those kids of the cool, white, upper-middle class parents to look at themselves and the communities they've been instrumental in building in any real way and think about the barriers to inclusion that they've intentionally or (usually) unintentionally put up. On one hand, I feel like a discussion about institutional racism, sexism, classism, nationalism can often just cause people get their hackles up and not listen, but on the other hand I feel like the idea of hospitality ("Welcome outsider to our home, which will always be our home and not yours." is not really what I think of when I think of open source. Rather, in an ideal situation, open source should be about orientation and empowerment and a sense of ownership ("Welcome newcomer to your new home. Here is everything you're going to need to be comfortable here. If you don't find what you need, don't hesitate to talk to people who were here before you about how we can make things better or better yet, just get started on making things better for people who come after you.")<br/>